i am scared my girlfriend?

I asked a question yesterday, This is a new My Girlfriend and I just found out today we are having twins. We are 16 years old. I know we shouldn’t be having kids. But we are good parents our other 2 kids are happy and healthy. We are living with my parents my younger sisters. We have taken parenting classes. The one instructor comes to our house once and a while to see how we are doing. She can’t believe how well we are doing. Our oldest child is 3 years old. She is a sweetie. We just had a baby 2 months and 26 days ago. Yesterday I did say my baby girl is younger. I did not realize a long it has been. I work full time she works part time. We both go to school but right now we have tutors coming to our house. So we can stay home. My parents are supportive they love me my girl friend and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I. We have to pay for our children. My parents help a little. That helps. To be honest being a father has made me a better person. I know that I made mistakes. At least I am taking care of my kids and girlfriend. I have insurance for my kids and my girlfriend and I feed them. I am nervous and I am happy about having twins. I love being a dad. I know I can afford another it. I don’t waste money. Every month my bank account is always positive. My GF puts her money she earns into the same account. We got money from her great grandpa and ma. That is in another account we have not touch that money yet. My girlfriend loves being a mom I love being a dad. She is a good mom. My GF is excited about having another baby. I am excited do. Our kids are healthy. We put our kids needs first. Please no rude comments I am taking care of my kids they are happy and healthy. To be honest we are happier now. We love being parents. Yes we are young. We are waiting a long time before we have sex again. I want to wait to have more kids. Until I am out of college. Were we work they threw us a baby shower for our last child. We got clothes, diapers, bottles, rags, a diaper bag, bibs, towels, and blankets stuff like that. I had to get strollers, cribs, nursery furniture and furnishings stuff like that. Car seat. They always do the same thing. My questions are Are we crazy for keeping our kids? They are taken care of. What is life like with twins? What stuff should I get now to be prepared for twins? Is it wrong for teens to take care of there babies? What should I know about having twins? we are good parents our family lawyer sends someone to our house to make sure everything is going ok

Public Comments

1. So, you guys had your first child at 13 years old? That's disgusting to me.
2. Pics or it didn't happen.
3. use a condom that's just too many d a m n kids no matter what age you are
4. why would you say that? thats...i dont even have a word for it..but ugh
5. it is kinda nasty you guys had your first kid at 13 but its great you guys are such good parents at a young age i wish all young parents were like but instead them and their kids wind up on the street
6. Wow I find that pretty amazing that you guys are able to take care of your kids well at 16. Beside that fact, life with twins is pretty much life with 2 extra kids that hate being separated. If they are fraternal, don't worry to much about preparations, just prepare for 2 extra kids. If they're identical twins, don't separate them for periods of time longer than maybe a couple hours or they will go nuts (not literally).
7. How do you know that you're having twins when you're (at most) only 2 months along? It's too soon to know that, so I dont believe you. Good luck whatever age you are though.
8. they are y o u r kids. you have every right to keep them! if i had a kid i would want to keep them. i wouldnt want my kid ending up in a foster home. i think you guys are being mature about it
9. WOW wait u had ur first child at age 13??? in jr high?!?! WOW ok so i am blasted out idk wat 2 say except 4 good luck
10. havin twins is a pain the butt...i no u guys r gud parents but those r jus too many kids...n at da age of 16...i can c datt ur lifes gunna be painful soo tryy to do sumfin fast!!
11. Hi! Wow, the world needs more people like you and your girlfriend. Although you may not have planned to have so many children so young, that doesn't mean you can't provide a good home for them. You sound more responsible than most adults I know when it comes to money and providing for your family. It is so easy for outsiders to judge and say you are too young or should give the kids up. I say if you love each other and you can honestly afford to provide for your children (and it sounds like you can), then your children will be a lot better off in this world than many that are born into great wealth. I wish you and your family many blessings. Sorry- I don't have the slightest clue about having twins?!! I don't know what you need in terms of that. Best of luck to you. God bless.
12. It sounds to me that you guys are responsible enough to take on that challenge. There are some teens that are not mentally mature enough to have children. As long as you are stable with money and continuing your own education with no problems I find your having kids natural. Although I agree with your desicion to stop until you are out of college becasue 4 children can be alot even for a adult couple. I believe that you guys are taking the right steps to become good parents.
13. Since, she's just 2 months along, you still have time to "get them taken care of".... I know it's a horrible thing, but ya'll are WAY too young to have responsibilities like this..... Ya'll probably shoulda done that in the first place no offense..... I'm not criticizing your life, just stating my opinion... What ever your choice is, I wish you the best of luck and a happy life. <3
14. Sorry people feel the need to post hateful comments...I cannot imagine being in your shoes and so I cannot judge. I'm 25 and still not ready for kids- too irresponsible. But, my mother had me while in high school, and she is a doctor now; so it all depends on the situation. I do agree w/ the other posters that this is a lot of children. Its not like you planned it to be this way...but life never works out for anyone the way they want. It sounds like you are happy, and it is great that family is helping out. That is one huge think I think most people in this country are missing, is supportive family, even good and open communication w/ extended family members. You are not crazy at all for wanting to keep and care for your children (it is actually very admirable). But, no way around it, it's gonna be hard. Hopefully you can reuse some of your baby equipment if you still have that. I've only known 2 people who have had twins- and they had completely different experiences. So, how difficult it will be will depend a lot on the temperament of the children, and the amount of support your family is willing to provide. I'd suggest checking out the parenting section at a local bookstore; I know there are books out on what to expect if you're having twins, and that can prepare you more. The best advice I can give you is to trust yourselves, and your parental instincts. Your kids need you, and it is so so important that they know you are there and love them unconditionally (even before they can understand what that means). They need to feel like their home environment is stable...and that you and your girlfriend are committed- if not to each other, than to your children, so they feel safe. That plus meeting the basic needs, and you should be set. It'll be a wild ride, but I hope worth it in the end. I would recommend the use of birth control (unless you can really wait to have sex again), because there is a breaking point, and you need to get settled in w/ the babies before deciding anything. But- if you do want to have sex again, it is probably best to use birth control and avoid having any more children until after college. Hope this helps...Good luck to you