Found out today i am having twins. Need advice?????????

I asked a question yesterday, This is a new My Girlfriend and I just found out today we are having twins. We are 16 years old. I know we shouldn’t be having kids. But we are good parents our other 2 kids are happy and healthy. We are living with my parents my younger sisters. We have taken parenting classes. The one instructor comes to our house once and a while to see how we are doing. She can’t believe how well we are doing. Our oldest child is 3 years old. She is a sweetie. We just had a baby 2 months and 26 days ago. Yesterday I did say my baby girl is younger. I did not realize a long it has been. I work full time she works part time. We both go to school but right now we have tutors coming to our house. So we can stay home. My parents are supportive they love me my girl friend and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I. We have to pay for our children. My parents help a little. That helps. To be honest being a father has made me a better person. I know that I made mistakes. At least I am taking care of my kids and girlfriend. I have insurance for my kids and my girlfriend and I feed them. I am nervous and I am happy about having twins. I love being a dad. I know I can afford another it. I don’t waste money. Every month my bank account is always positive. My GF puts her money she earns into the same account. We got money from her great grandpa and ma. That is in another account we have not touch that money yet. My girlfriend loves being a mom I love being a dad. She is a good mom. My GF is excited about having another baby. I am excited do. Our kids are healthy. We put our kids needs first. Please no rude comments I am taking care of my kids they are happy and healthy. To be honest we are happier now. We love being parents. Yes we are young. We are waiting a long time before we have sex again. I want to wait to have more kids. Until I am out of college. Were we work they threw us a baby shower for our last child. We got clothes, diapers, bottles, rags, a diaper bag, bibs, towels, and blankets stuff like that. I had to get strollers, cribs, nursery furniture and furnishings stuff like that. Car seat. They always do the same thing. My questions are Are we crazy for keeping our kids? They are taken care of. What is life like with twins? What stuff should I get now to be prepared for twins? Is it wrong for teens to take care of there babies? What should I know about having twins?

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1. wow...well from readin how proper u talk...id say u were alot older..obviously u r mature..and so is uf gf...all i can say is it sounds like ur doing a very good job raising ur kids...and no ur not wrong for keeping ur twins...for 16 both of yall are very mature, and at least yall put ur kids first..some ppl dont...
2. I'm not a mother myself, but I do know that having doubles babies can make it twice as hard. Four children will definitely be difficult on you, particularly at such a young age, so you need to make sure that each child's needs are put before your own in the idea that they are happy, healthy, and will continue to be so. I don't care if teenagers want to keep their kids, so long as they can independently care for them, financially and emotionally. So long as your child can have a good life in your care, that's fine. A quick recommendation, your girlfriend got pregnant very recently, just after having a baby. You might want to monitor her more closely, considering her body may or may not be fully "recharged" from her last baby. Just be sure to keep up with any and all doctors appointments.