I am sacred need advice?

I asked a question yesterday, This is a new My Girlfriend and I just found out today we are having twins. We are 16 years old. I know we shouldn't be having kids. But we are good parents our other 2 kids are happy and healthy. We are living with my parents my younger sisters. We have taken parenting classes. The one instructor comes to our house once and a while to see how we are doing. She can’t believe how well we are doing. Our oldest child is 3 years old. She is a sweetie. We just had a baby 2 months and 27 days ago. Yesterday I did say my baby girl is younger. I did not realize a long it has been. I work full time she works part time. We both go to school but right now we have tutors coming to our house. So we can stay home. My parents are supportive they love me my girl friend and there grandchildren. But they only finically support my girlfriend and I. We have to pay for our children. My parents help a little. That helps. To be honest being a father has made me a better person. I know that I made mistakes. At least I am taking care of my kids and girlfriend. I have insurance for my kids and my girlfriend and I feed them. I am nervous and I am happy about having twins. I love being a dad. I know I can afford another it. I don’t waste money. Every month my bank account is always positive. My GF puts her money she earns into the same account. We got money from her great grandpa and ma. That is in another account we have not touch that money yet. My girlfriend loves being a mom I love being a dad. She is a good mom. My GF is excited about having another baby. I am excited do. Our kids are healthy. We put our kids needs first. Please no rude comments I am taking care of my kids they are happy and healthy. To be honest we are happier now. We love being parents. Yes we are young. We are waiting a long time before we have sex again. I want to wait to have more kids. Until I am out of college. Were we work they threw us a baby shower for our last child. We got clothes, diapers, bottles, rags, a diaper bag, bibs, towels, and blankets stuff like that. I had to get strollers, cribs, nursery furniture and furnishings stuff like that. Car seat. They always do the same thing. I am nervous and scared. I am on paid leave at my job. I got injured at work. They are going pay me while i am on leave. I still get my paycheck every week. I don't know when i will be back at work. 1-3 plus months i am on leave. My questions are Are we crazy for keeping our kids? They are taken care of. What is life like with twins? What stuff should I get now to be prepared for twins? Is it wrong for teens to take care of there babies? What should I know about having twins? any advice to make me less nervous? i know i mad mistakes. Atleast i have my parents and little sisters and my gf support

Public Comments

1. Are you crazy for keeping your kids? No. Are you crazy for having sex so young and obviously not learning your lesson after each mistake? Yes.
2. My word you are young to be having your 3rd and 4th children. I am young too, 19 with two kids, my oldest bein 2 and a bit. What i dont understand is, how did she get pregnant again so quikly and already know she is having twins? It does sound like you are doin a good job with yur kids, but are you able to continue the good work with two more? I think you should start working towards your independance more also. I dont think there is anything wrong with teens keeping their own babies and i personally advocate teenage parents, if they choose to have babies, they should have to look after it themselves. I dont have twins, but i know some ladies on here do or are expecting them, maybe you could ask them for advice on that front. I would just prepare what you did for all the other pregnancies, but just two of it! However, wait til your next scan until buying anything just so you can make sure all is ok as its still early days!!! I hope this helps and good luck!
3. Your question is a bit rambling, but I get from it that you have 2 children already and one is 3 years old, meaning that you and your girlfriend were 13 when that child was born. Now you are having twins. That will be four kids at 16. This is not very responsible, but what is done is done and you are stuck with it. Raise your children and do your best.
4. No not crazy just a good parent! About your question: Is it wrong for teens to take care of there babies? Well, in reality you guys are not teens anymore. Just because you 16 doesn't make you a teen, that's only a number. You are both having a life style as an adult! So, you are consider an adult, you are taking care of your responsibilities. My advice would be just keep doing what your doing, but don't depend on that injury income to long. Once your up and ready to work go for it! Always stay in school and finish it! For your kids sake! Good Luck!
5. Wow you are an amazing guy, there are not many 16 year olds out there like you. Some people grow up faster than others, age shouldn't matter, just your maturity, there are 30 year olds out there that act like 14 year olds are useless fathers so you should be proud of yourself. I would be scared too, but you have lots of baby stuff from your last 2 kids that you can pass to your twins, so really the only things you should need are two extra car seats and maybe another double stroller. Life with twins is a little more hectc, especuially if you still have a little baby who doesn't sleep through the night. What usually happens is the twins are never in sync, usually when one is hungry the other isn't etc. so it is a bit more work. It sounds like you have tons of support though so I wouldn't be too worried about that. As far as keeping your kids, its the best thing you can do for them, they need both their parents together in a loving family, and you have just that, what more could they ask for. You will wonder for the rest of your life where your kids are and if they are safe, if you give them up, I personally could not live with myself. I would abstain from sex for a few years or at least get a reliable type of birth control. As far as being a parent, it sounds like you are doing a great job, and you should be VERY proud of yourself, like I said there are 30 year old men out there who are still lousy fathers, age means nothing, only maturity and preparedness, and frame of mind. Good luck with everything and I hope you enjoy the little ones and get a good education - you are doing so well, don't give up now.